Friday, September 4, 2015

Dr. Blitzcrank & Mrs. Giraffe

Holy cow I blinked and 2 weeks went by! Time flies when you're having fun I guess. I'm excited to write because I've been so happy lately. But it's not going to be nearly as good as it was last time because this isn't Dallin. Lol I read that post and giggled the whole time. 

(oh, about the title, Dallin's the #1 player in his game at a player called Blitzcrank so I think he deserves the 'Dr.' title for that. And the students at my school call me Mrs. Giraffe lol and I like having a nickname)

Our Happy Place

It's funny because it's really not anything special. It's just a building with a waterfall in front of it and big grass field on the side of it, but we love it! The dogs go crazy running around and we bring a blanket and sit there when the sun is setting and play with them. It's perfect. This time we tried to get a video because Jakey always likes to run up to the birds and scare them. Sometimes he scares like a hundred at a time and it's so cool to watch.

I wish we had this in slow motion because it's so funny to watch their ears flop when they run. And Josie has such a funny little waddle.



After a bath!

They look a lot different when they're not fluffy! The tradition after baths is Josie cuddles in a towel and Jakey runs laps around the house like a psycho. It's his way of blow drying himself I guess. 

Our Date #1

We tried something new! We went to a mexican restaurant here in PG that we hadn't been to before. It was pretty good! (I've been slacking on making the dates creative lately because I've been so busy) So it was an F for creativity but an A for fun level and an A+ for the company. Dallin always makes me laugh so hard, and I always say I'm going to remember the funny things he says and put them on here, and then I can't remember for the life of me. I'm seriously starting a note on my phone of "Dallinisms" so that I can remember his weird sayings.

A summary of my time so far...

The reader's digest version is I LOVE MY JOB! It's so interesting the difference your job can make in your life. Even if everything else is perfect, (money, relationships, hobbies, etc.) having a job with no level of fulfillment sucks the life out of you. I've noticed such a huge difference in my happiness level, the way I treat people, my patience level, and what I think about when I'm alone since I've started teaching. It's easy to get up in the morning and do what I have to for work because it's intellectually and socially stimulating, and extremely fulfilling.
ANYWAY,
Here's a breakdown of all the things I'm teaching this semester.

This one's the easiest one for me because I have the most experience with it. Most of my lessons were already made so I don't have to do anything except make copies sometimes. There's a lot in health that they still don't know, so they're all really interested and ask a lot of questions. 
My favorite thing about it is still seeing them light up when I say something that they find interesting. 

PE was the hardest for me at first. I'll be honest- the first day was a train wreck. But after that I quickly learned what it takes. The first day I was thinking, "Oh crap. What have I gotten myself into?" Put 12 and 13 year olds in a loud echoey gym with balls and you have a recipe for disaster. It's the trickiest management situation because they can't always hear you and everything is always so exciting. Basically after I figured out that they weren't trying to ruin my life and I just had to channel all that energy, we were good. I have to constantly keep them occupied and change it up like 4 times throughout the lesson. But it works so far lol 
Anyway what started out being my most hated class is now my favorite. The students who were driving me crazy ended up joining the cross country team and they talk about how awesome I am all the time now. I'm so happy how it all turned out. 
I had heard other teachers complain about this class so I was expecting the worst, but it's really not bad at all. I teach them study skills for the first 20 minutes or so, and then they do their homework for the rest of the time. I can get my work done too, so it's sortof like another prep, and I actually like teaching them the study skills. I taught a couple classes for the high school, and they were so apathetic and full of attitude, but the 7th and 8th graders genuinely don't know this stuff. They're all interested in it still because they just came from elementary and having 8 classes is hard for them still. I wish I would have had something like this when I was in school because I struggled with the same things they struggle with. And I think the students all relate to me because I tell them about my learning disability issues and what I did to get better in school. It feels really important because stuff like this will get them through college!

Yearbook is so fun! I was so stressed about it a couple days before school started when the panic of the un-known set in. And I still don't really know what I'm doing, but I'm learning just like they are, and what we do is so interesting to me. It's perfect for me because I wanted to be a journalist before but ended up changing majors because I didn't want to live that lifestyle. Now I'm able to basically teach it and do the same things in a much more fun environment. I'm so excited to be ultra involved in everything, and create the FIRST EVER yearbook for the middle school since it's brand new! My favorite part about it is that we're really all a team in that class. You can say you are in other classes but you're really not. In yearbook we make every decision together about what goes in, and they're all so mature for their age. They think about others' feelings and what the parents would want. It's amazing. 
This was our brainstorm for pages to include. 
Oh my gosh, coaching is so rewarding. I had heard that in the past, but I've never really done it. They're amazing little people! Some of them have like 6 minute miles and they're only 11 years old! They try so hard and they have so much fun even though it's 100 degrees out and the workouts are hard. They have helped each other out on multiple occasions without me prompting them to, (running with those who haven't finished, talking out disputes, explaining to someone who doesn't speak english very well, cheering when someone's coming in to the finish line, etc.) and that never happens! I know them all so well too, because I teach them all in multiple classes too. I asked them what they wanted to do one day and one of the fastest kids said, "Maybe we should just all run together today. Like as a team?" and then when they started running away one of the slowest ones said, "I like our team. We're so cool." lol I guess I liked that because the athletic kids don't make the non-athletic kids feel bad, and there's no cliques like there are on some teams. And instead of complaining about having to run up a hill, they named it "the hill of Narnia" and go at it like spartan warriors or something. It's pretty funny. I run with them, and they always try to race me. Last practice they all improved from their times a week previously, and seriously a tear came to my eye. I MUST CLARIFY FOR MY DIGNITY THAT IT DID NOT FALL, but my eyes were a little watery. lol I had never been that proud of students before. It was so cool.
I don't feel like it's a job at all to be there. I drive home from practice smiling every single day. I think that's what life should be like, so I feel lucky that I found it at Summit Academy.

They ran for office and voted this last week. It's such a different experience at a small school because everyone knows everyone. I was so proud of them, and amazed again, at how nice they are to each other. They cheered for everyone (more than just clapping) at the speeches, and when I heard them talking about it, no one was saying anything negative about anyone. It was so cool to see the shy students conquering fears. They announced the winners today, and after I saw the winners talking to the others who ran and then we all did the macarena. lol This all sounds stupid I'm sure but it's the happiest I've ever been at a job by far. 

Summit is so different than other schools, and although I could have taught other places, I'm so glad I chose Summit. It's so different when the class is only 18 people (I actually have one class with only 8 people!). You're able to really get to know each person, and see them all several times a day. It's much different than at PGJR where I student taught because I knew their name and maybe one other thing about them and that is it. This is going to sound cliche but I promise you, bullying doesn't exist at all there. It's crazy. Since it's an academically rigorous school, they wear uniforms, and they all have to choose to go there, the attitude is much different. They all care, and that is a rare thing for a 13 year old! Everyone is so positive, and there are so many truly gifted students. Their math and science programs go to higher levels than anyone in the state (they offer higher than calculus!), they have the best stem program in the western states, and they all take foreign languages, and the sports teams are great. They're a different kind of student than anywhere else. 

Teacher Life

Look how freaking cute my lunch box is. lol
I think another reason I'm so happy is that younger people are a lot more uplifting to be around than adults because they notice things and don't have as much of a social filter. For example, adults will stand in an elevator and stare at the door instead of talk to each other. 12 year olds don't have any reservations about telling someone they look like the guy from "True Blood," complimenting your earrings, or asking why you're in a bad mood. I like that. I wish people didn't lose that as they aged because that's what makes life exciting. I always thought it was weird that adults would rather stare at a computer screen with headphones on than talk to the human being sitting next to them. The students have already noticed that my favorite color is pink based off what I wear! Haha you don't get questions like that by going to an office and working in a cubicle with adults all day. 

I'm so official, I even have my own box!

I check it a little too frequently because it's so exciting when theres something in there. (by the way, "Porter" is Julie Porter and she was actually our wedding planner. Small world. she teaches theater there)

I made a review ball by writing questions on a beach ball. They throw it around and where ever their thumb lands when they catch it they have to answer that question.

I'm becoming rather resourceful- the other PE teacher laughed at my makeshift sit & reach box. I just put a ruler on a stool and had them reach lol It works great!

The Man of the Hour

He leaves me notes on paper towels on the bathroom mirror lol (cue the "awww")

We finished Chuck...

Chuck has a terrible ending. I absolutely hated it. I'm still really bitter about it so I won't go into it. Anyway, Michelle and Brian told us to start watching white collar and so far we love it!

Dallin's blog post

He's so funny. He was too embarrassed to talk about my picture with the rose from our anniversary. Trenden did a rose ceremony while he was marrying us, and he told us to give each other a single rose every year we're married. The rose is supposed to remind us of the love we felt on our wedding day anytime we fight or become complacent. I think it's a really romantic and important symbol to have, and it meant a lot to me that he got the single rose. Twenen did such an impeccable job as our minister, and I can't imagine anyone else doing it better. (And everyone said at the reception "your brother's a surprisingly good dancer! lol) Thanks trendy yer the best.

Movie with the other Graffs

We went and saw this movie with Brian and Michelle, and I thought it was okay. Dallin loved it. I think since we've been watching so many spy shows lately it's getting old for me (chuck, mission impossible, white collar, hawaii 5-0, and now this). He's even hoping for a sequel. 

This is where it gets cheesey.

I saw this on Pinterest the other day...

So it made me wonder what Dallin's "look" was with me. I was so pre-occupied with staying with the music, my dress being too long, and everyone staring at me to notice. So I went searching through our wedding pictures to find it. And I think it's pretty good. He's such a genuine person, and he only sees the best in me. Even when I'm a stressed, pre-occupied bride who's supposed to be enjoying a romantic moment. 

I branched out for some red lipstick

because everyone's doing it. The only problem is I feel like a 6 year old playing dress up when I try to wear it. Idk if you can pull it off when you're a teacher in Bluffdale, Utah instead of a model in New York. This picture is mostly of my nostrils because I was sending it to Michelle and I think she loves my nostrils.

More Wildlife in PG

There is an eentsy-weentsy spider that instead of going up the water spout, goes to work making intense webs every night. There's always a huge web between my car and a tree or my car and the car next to it every morning when I come outside. You can't see it very well in the picture, but it's crazy huge, only to be destroyed every day when I leave. I feel bad for the poor little fella cuz he clearly tries so hard. 

 I got a grown-up decoration

to replace my pitiful attempt in the downstairs bathroom. I think it looks much better. Nails nails nails. (I'm already excited about how I'm going to do them this weekend)

I figured out my mom's hidden life calling.

She should have been a teacher! I ran over to my mom's house to grab something I knew she had for an object lesson for Health and I was in a panic because I still had no idea what I was going to do for PE that day. (This was during my overwhelmed-with-PE day after the first-day-tragedy.) Within minutes she pulled out two big exercise balls, and 25 die and told me a lesson plan. It was brilliant! The students all got a dice and had to roll. Each number on the dice was a different exercise that they had to do. Then we did lots of other cool games with the dice and exercise balls. It might have been the entire reason that PE turned around for me because the students thought it was fun and it engaged them because it was different. 
I couldn't believe how fast and easy it was for her, and I don't get why she says she wanted to be an architect. Why be an architect when you could have a fun job and be good at it? lol (I'm not biased at all about which jobs are fun of course ;)
Oh well, for now I will keep her as my secret resource for when I get writer's block. 

Dallin hung something in our room!

The downstairs is all decorated but upstairs still looks like a dorm room. I use a stool for my nightstand and our curtains are held up by thumb tacks. It's a little embarrassing because we moved in like a really long time ago. It just takes forever for us to get around to things. My table still isn't done. I'm starting to think I'll never have a kitchen table because I'm such a horrible procrastinator. Granted, I have zeal for starting projects and that's great, but I lack dedication to finish them....
so there's your #sharetherealmovement.

Dallin's favorite song at the moment!

I like it too!

Wudy and Jake.

They love each other. They came over for dinner one night and it was so funny watching them interact because Rudy thought that Jake was so funny. I used a generic picture from the internet because I forgot to take a picture. And my phone wouldn't' let me take pictures actually because I used up all the memory. Shocker, I know. 

Cute Kids.

Josie was bent over backwards cuddling so I had to get a picture.
They are fighting over this toy recently and I think it looks hilarious when they carry it around. 

The end of an era

Kim Harris, my miss orem director, has decided to step down. She gave a good 11 years of service to the program and she worked so hard. She made a positive difference in the lives of all the girls and was so involved in the community. We definitely butted heads at times, but in the end I am so grateful for her influence in my life because I would be very different had I never done Miss Orem. Kim's the salt of the earth and gets to know each contestant and royalty individually. Thank you kim for your selfless years of hard work, I will always look up to you and remain close. Whoever joins the Miss Orem gang has big shoes to fill, but I know it will turn out great. I've thought about helping out, and Dallin has thought about judging pageants because we both know the incredible difference it makes in the lives of those girls. 

Connie turns the big 7-0!

Can you believe the woman in the picture with me is 70 years old? She doesn't look like it at all. The Johnsons have been good friends of the family my whole life, and I've never actually known how they met my dad until I went to this birthday party last saturday! Apparently he was introduced to Connie by an ex girlfriend in college. (Who we also got to meet) lol kindof funny.

Dallin spotted a cool car

He took this video because he loved this car he saw on the road.

Date Night #2

We went to Red Lobster after the birthday party, and again, Dallin said so many things that I wish I had written down. 

He's happy for football season! 

And I am in a way too. I like pumpkin spice flavored everything, the fall leaves, the excitement and food of seeing live games or having company to watch football games, and picking out halloween costumes. And I love that first time you get to turn the heater on and light a fall scented candle. Plus the sweaters and boots of course. 
But football is what we're talking about. Gotta stay on track here.

I don't know if he's doing fantasy football again this year, but the last few years he's done it and gotten really into it and won. So he probably will. 
 We're going to the Packers and Cardinals game after Christmas down in AZ with Trenden and Kaylynn! I'm so excited. Dallin's never been to an NFL game before, and when I went with my Grampa and cousins to a packers game it was the most amazing experience ever. I'm stoked.

My dad would hurl and hate us if he knew this but he refuses to read this blog anyway so I'll just say it. The other day Dallin suggested we become Utah fans since UVU doesn't have a football team yet. I said yes because I don't really have a reason to be a BYU fan. The only reason I ever was was because my dad was so we went to games. But the U is good and I think I would enjoy going to their games and tailgate parties. I've been before and it was fun! Nobody tell my dad or he'll disown me.

"That's the way the cookie crumbles."


First year of teaching...or sailing lessons :)

Enjoy the journey,
-Sydney

Sunday, August 16, 2015

A Week With the Graffs: By Dallin Graff

It's Yuh Boi Dallin checking in here with my first blog. Its about to get weird.  A lot has happened these past 2 weeks in the Graff fam' so get ready for more pictures of us, definitely a lot of pictures of our kids(dogs), and even more pictures of dogs. 
Here's our not so petite daughter Josie playing with one of her toys. Shes weird because she prefers to lay on basically anything other than carpet. But I guess when you think about it, who doesn't enjoy laying on a nice piece of paper, licking out an old peanut butter container. If I had a nickel for every time I've done that...
I have a new favorite song that was probably written just for my life. Its kinda my anthem and I have been told I sound EXACTLY like the singer. Enjoy. 
My little/big brother came back to Utah from my family's trip around the world and he stayed the night with us. So naturally we took the TV from the living room and set it up on Sydneys desk so he could play X-box. 8 hours of gaming later, after 3,000 calories of Doritos and mountain dew and candy, we called it a night and went to bed. Again if I had a penny for every time I've done that...
Here is a picture of a night drive up Provo canyon that Me, Syd, and the kids went on to see the 'Meteor Shower'. Best part of the night was when Sydney realized that a 'Meteor Shower' was another way of saying 'shooting stars'. She was definitely disappointed. She thought she was gonna see some Armageddon equivalent meteors.
Sydney has always said that this picture captures our essence, so I believe she thinks we are creeps. I could be wrong though. 
We had our 1 year birthday of being married and it was not just a trip, but a journey down memory lane. We went through our wedding box with every memory of the wedding day, watched our wedding video, and both put on Sydney wedding dress. Just sydney is pictured below in it. We still want people to enjoy reading the blog. We had a relaxing day of swimming and nice Dinner to cap it all off. Its been an amazing year with an amazing person and we are excited for the future. 
Sir Thomas had his birthday, #35 I believe, so we went and celebrated with them. Happy Birthday Tommy boy. They are so fun to hang out with, and we discovered the VIP lounge while we were there! Those recliner seats are no joke! 
Coming away with only a broken rib and an almost fractured ankle, here are the pictures of my first downhill mountain bike experience. Clearlink took all of the sales managers for a retreat up in Park City and it got real. My biggest take aways from the experience: 1. When you go off a jump, make sure your feet don't come off the pedals when you land. Otherwise bad things happen. Really bad things. 2. Dressing in multiple layers in August to try to pad the falls that were bound to happen was a bad idea. I assume thats how Hot Yoga would feel. 3. I am moving to Sweden. I rode up the ski lift with a kid from Sweden and we talked for a long time and he was the nicest person I've ever met. He came to the US at the beginning of the summer, bought an old mini-van, took out the seats and sleeps in it every night. He has been driving around the country just mountain biking and enjoying life for months. My life is so boring compared to that guy.
Heres some pictures of our kids sleeping (you've probably never seen this before) and doing other things that human kids can do. Jakey holds on and gives hugs and kisses when I get home from work and I dont even have to hold him. The whole thing about animals not being able to do things because of their lack of opposable thumbs is garbage.


Sydney had her last day at Prodigy Promos because she got the perfect teaching job so this is the first day of her sitting down to start creating lesson plans. So much planning that you have to plan time for when you're going to sit down and plan out the lesson plans and create the game plan for the year of teaching. Lots of plans.


RIP Charles Lester III

Sydneys Dog Charlie passed away this week. He was 12. It's been hard for Sydney, and her dad and Shelly this week, I knew him but not as well. He was such an easy-going, loyal guy. Sammy has never been without him so she will probably be very sad for a while. He is definitely missed. They gave him a burial service in Ne under a tree. He lived a long, happy life, and died peacefully in his sleep.
It was fun being out in Nebraska over last Christmas and sledding with him. (See below)
Me and Syd were lucky enough to be able to have all of our friends over to our new house and have a big pool party/BBQ. We are kind of popular and luckily our small/humble home was able to accomodate so many awesome people...One day....This was actually a pool party/BBQ at the owner of Clearlinks house. It was such an amazing day and I'm grateful to work for such an amazing company.
Shelly'nor Roosevelt came to town and stayed with us and helped Syd make posters for the Cross Country sign ups. It was fun eating dinner with her and catching up. Maybe I just got lucky and got some awesome In-laws.
We went to Dinner with Rudy and Brian and Michelle tagged along. Hes so freaking cute. The picture that says "Bjergsens Mother" is incredibly significant so please pay attention. I just hit the #1 player in the world in League of Legends with the champion that I play(Blitzcrank). There are 68 million people that play League of Legends so I think being #1 with a champion is kinda cool. I'm sure I'm gonna be super stoked to tell my grandkids about that one. They will care I'm sure.
Sydney and Michelle went on a Girl's Date while the boys stayed home with the kids. They went and watched Mission Impossible 312 or something. I forget how many Mission Impossible's there are but I think its a lot.
This week was the first week that Sydney started her new teaching job at the middle school. Those little 14 year olds are in for a treat. I swear most of my teachers growing up were like 130 years old. In true Sydney fashion, she was 30 minutes late on her first day lol. But at least we got a picture of it. I am honestly so proud of her though. She has worked so hard to get to where she's at and to prepare her to be a teacher and I have no doubt that she will be the best teacher ever. Those kids are lucky to have her. She's amazing.
She took these pictures of her room when it was still being cleaned and painted.
During training week she met a friend named Melanie who's teaching 4th grade (below). She also went and met up with Jessica the teacher she did the student teaching with to get tips on PE. 
She got her official contract and we went to utah idaho supply and got her posters for the room. She was so excited I wanted to take a picture. But I was happy to get out of there...
This is the yearbook staff for both jr. high and high school there. She said that all the other teachers are cool and they got together to plan together. She's overwhelmed about it, but I think she'll be great at it.
Syd complained about how long it took her to make this poster, but it turned out great! The first practice is monday!
She sent me these on the first day of school during prep. She said it went well, except when she taught PE. But I'm sure she'll get better at that, she's just used to being in a classroom and it's different in a gym.
I walked her out to the car on the morning of her first day and took a picture. She was so worried about being late she was rushing, but then ended up being early. I love seeing her so excited about what she's doing now.
 Today Sydney went to see off Emma for college. She left to go to Utah State. I've met her family before too, and they are such cool, inviting people. I hope she loves college life!

Its been a great couple weeks but it's also been a hard couple weeks. Being an adult is hard sometimes. But at the end of the day, I can't help but feeling unbelievably lucky for everything that I have. I am grateful for my family and friends, great jobs that me and Syd have, and for the experiences that we are having right now. Life is great.  
"Life is short. FALSE. Its the longest thing you'll ever do" -Dwight Shrute
Have a good week everybody. Dallin signing off-
Deuces
Dallin Graff